After my divorce, my world felt like it had been turned upside down. I was no longer just dealing with the emotional pain of separation and being a single mother, but also an overwhelming sense of vulnerability. I was paranoid that he was going to come back and finish me and my daughters off.
Every creak in the house sent my heart racing, and the darkness seemed to hold shadows that loomed larger than life. It felt like the walls that once provided comfort now betrayed me, making me feel exposed and alone.
I’d lay in bed at night, every sound amplifying my fears. The figures that danced in the corners of my vision made me question what was real and what was just my anxiety playing tricks on me. It was a suffocating way to live.
In the midst of all that fear, I found strength. I realized that taking control of my environment, creating a sanctuary for myself and my daughters, was the key to feeling safe again. From simple changes like better lighting to more comprehensive steps like securing my home, each step I took was a step away from fear and toward peace.
If you've ever felt that bone-deep unease, I get it. And that’s why I want to share what worked for me in my Ultimate Guide to Feeling Safe at Home. You don’t have to live in fear, and you’re not alone in wanting to reclaim that sense of security.
Secure Your Entry Points
Did you know that 34% of burglars enter through the front door? Make sure all entry points, including doors and windows, are secure. Install deadbolts, security bars, and smart locks to prevent unauthorized access.
Install a Home Security System
Studies show that homes without a security system are 300% more likely to be broken into. Invest in a reliable home security system with cameras, motion sensors, and alarms to deter intruders and alert you of any suspicious activity.
Illuminate Your Property
Darkness provides cover for potential intruders. Install outdoor lighting with motion sensors to illuminate your property and deter burglars. Well-lit areas are less attractive to criminals looking for easy targets.
Secure Your Valuables
Keep your valuables secure by storing them in a secure location, such as a safe or a locked cabinet. Consider investing in a fire proof home safe to protect important documents, jewelry, and other valuable items from theft or natural disasters.
Practice Fire Safety
Fire safety is essential for protecting your home and family. Install smoke detectors on every level of your home and test them regularly. Create a fire escape plan and conduct fire drills with your family to ensure everyone knows what to do in case of an emergency. Purchase fire retardant blankets and fire extinguishers and practice how to use that fast and effectively.
Maintain Your Home
Regular maintenance can help prevent accidents and keep your home safe. Check for any potential hazards, such as loose wires, leaky pipes, broken windows or unstable structures. Address any issues promptly to avoid safety risks.
Get to Know Your Neighbors
Neighborhood watch programs are effective in reducing crime rates. Get to know your neighbors and look out for each other. By working together, you can create a strong sense of community and enhance the safety of your neighborhood.
By following these tips and taking proactive measures, you can create a safe and secure environment for you and your family.
Remember, safety starts at home, so make it a priority to safeguard your living space and enjoy peace of mind knowing that you are protected.
Presented by Coach Trina at Dragoyle.com
